Building a Village

(A young Army Private was once asked while standing in formation by his Drill Sergeant, "What is the hardest thing to find." The Private sounded off loudly, "To find happiness Drill Sergeant." The Drill Sergeant immediately called him a faggot and made him do push ups. The Drill Sergeant's answer was to be a leader. He was obviously insulted by the Private's answer. Strangely the whole formation didn't laugh at the Private's answer, as they were miserable and happiness seemed a distant dream in their current setting. As that Private came down the next morning for formation at 5:30 A.M. he noticed someone had written on the chalk board in the barracks front lobby, Happiness is Elusive. It seemed someone had been listening.)

Not knowing. Not knowing what the future holds. Where you will be tomorrow? Where you will live for the rest of your life? Wanting the best for your family. The best schools and social environment for your children. The least stressful environment for yourself and loved ones. Trying to surround yourself with family and friends that support you, love you and help you to grow mentally, spiritually, and creatively.

This should be easily attainable. You will need a village. A village where your friends and loved ones live. A village where your skills and talents are needed in order for the village to prosper. A village where you can find happiness without taking medication. Where you don't need a pill to level you out. A village that naturally levels you out.

Where you can depend on and trust your neighbors. A place where you don't have to lock your front door at night. A place where you aren't worried about your kids playing outside. A place where you aren't worried about retirement, because you know you will be supported and not abandoned.

Find this, and you will find happiness, Drill Sergeant. If you find this, then come find me. I will be the first to follow.